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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 03:38

How does one succeed in life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How would you feel about your husband allowing a mutual friend to see you naked and exposed to show off your pussy?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Does not procrastinate.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why did Mark Lane harass Helen Markham during an illegally recorded telephone conversation to misidentify Lee Harvey Oswald who she witnessed as the shooter of Tippit?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do ugly men flirt with girls that are really hot?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

That's it for today.

Rich people actually spend a whole lot, but the market is the market and there is only one price for the same item and it is much easier for the rich to buy it or lease it or rent it because its expensive to be poor. So why do people have such ideas?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Ask yourself:

Do not set goals—set systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do you have pics of the wife making out with another guy?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why cant I stop thinking about counsellor between sessions?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What I need from you?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Making more friends is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.